Relationship

HOW SHOULD A MAN TREAT HIS PARTNER?

Written by Chioma Kalu

You don’t beat your spouse into submission, you love her into it.

“A man who treats his woman like a princess is proof that he has been born and raised in the arm of a queen.”

Most men do have a slight idea of how a lady/wife should be treated, one thing they know is that a wife should be submissive to her husband and they end up being a beast to their wives, you Don’t beat your spouse into submission, you love her into it. Yes, she knows you are the man of the house but a friendly and loving approach would mean a whole lot. I’d like to tell us few ways a man should treat his spouse/wife.

ALWAYS APPRECIATE HER::

When you are thankful you expect more, things don’t need to be perfectly done before you appreciate the effort of your companion, always remind her that you are thankful that she came into the life. Always be appreciative of what she does, even if you know she is supposed to do better. Also as a way of showing your support,  you can show her how to do it better too. If she is a home-maker, appreciate her efforts, and tell her you would be lost without her. You will just make her day by doing so.

ALWAYS TAKE DECISION TOGETHER:

You need her as much as she needs you, always try to know her point of view, know how she feels or what she thinks in a particular situation. Instead of making that immediate purchase always go home, have a brief discussion with her, and have an agreement, It goes a very long way to having a successful relationship with your spouse not only treating her well, it makes her feel important and attached to you. Always talk with your wife regarding every crucial or high-quality ticket investment. Accept her viewpoint, and ask her to list down her preferences. Plan the investment jointly, and make it a point to invest in it together.

LET HER KNOW THAT YOU ARE PROUD OF HER:

You shouldn’t give room for her to feel cheap or unimportant, always be there for her, encourage her and make her feel loved.  If she got an inferior hike at work than you, cheer and encourage her. If she got a better hike, tell her you’re proud of her. Don’t hide her always, and if you think that she isn’t the way you want her to be, help her become the way you want. Feeling bad about herself isn’t approved.

Do NOT HURT HER WITH YOUR WORDS :

Mocking your partner is unacceptable, always understand her. Some men always try to make their companions feel like she’s not meeting up with her responsibility in a harsh way. If your partner doesn’t accept your decision on something, do not get annoyed about it, rather patiently understand her opinion. Also, saying words like, ”do whatever you want, that’s your business’  ‘I don’t care’ or “who cares” are surely going to do some serious damage to your relationship by talking that way.

Wait! Don’t be in a haste to leave, I’d like to know if there are some other ways to treat your partner which works for you it might help someone else too, your views are important.

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About the author

Chioma Kalu

My name is Olugu Chioma Kalu. I was born in Aba, Abia State Nigeria. I am currently a student of Abia State University Uturu (ABSU) studying English Language and literature. I am an effective communicator and a good writer. I assure you that I understand you and will be able to connect with you.

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