Written by Chioma Kalu

Marriage is sacred! It involves two persons with mutual understanding so it shouldn’t be made out of pity if not it will lead to so many things. A lot of marriages have crashed, you get to find two unhappy people. There are so many reasons why people will marry out of pity but I tell you it’s not worth it, if you can’t feel the vibe, if you can’t fee the connection between the two of you, I’ll advice you not to take any further step of marriage. Let’s proceed to listing out the reasons why it is not advisable to marry out of pity:

  1. Your marriage won’t last: What was in your mind, that the marriage will some how work out, it won’t, do you know why? Because you weren’t out of true love but you got married out of pity and your marriage lacks the main ingredients which is love.
  1. You will lack respect and value: As a wife, you’re meant to be treasured and loved, let’s not forget what the scripture says,” he who finds a wife findeth a good thing.” But on this issue is vice versa because he choose you out of pity. Definitely insult and abuses will be rain on each other for little or no reason, automatically you just lost your respect as a wife(husband)
  1. Unhappiness in marriage: Based on all the happenings already, tell me how do they intend to be happy. That’s not possible of course. You’ll end up regretting that marriage every day of your life till you get divorced. I have seen couples who fight each other almost every day, if not fighting it will be scolding which might lead to physical abuse.
  2. Poor parental upbringing: If you eventually get involved in this kind of marriage, think of what kind of parents you’ll be to your children. The kind of mentality they’ll have towards marriage in their early stage.This isn’t good for any child, they don’t have to witness this.

If the both parties find the one who their heart beats for, that’s another problem because their heart won’t be with their partner. Sometimes they might not be able to cut off the marriage because of what their partner might feel ( pity) which will lead to forever regret and sorrow.

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Chioma Kalu

My name is Olugu Chioma Kalu. I was born in Aba, Abia State Nigeria. I am currently a student of Abia State University Uturu (ABSU) studying English Language and literature. I am an effective communicator and a good writer. I assure you that I understand you and will be able to connect with you.

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