Personal Relationship

IS IT POSSIBLE THAT YOU CAN LIKE SOMEONE BUT WOULDN’T LIKE TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THEM?

Written by Chioma Kalu

It is said that if you love something or someone you go for it, but these days the reverse seems to be the case. I keep wondering why people would be with someone they don’t love, when interviewed they give lots of reasons, yet they won’t allow you to try somewhere else. This attitude is seen mostly in women/ladies.

LOVE, PURE AS A DOVE IS NOT SELFISH. WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE, YOU FIND YOURSELF DOING THE UNTHINKABLE FOR THAT PERSON YOU LOVE EVEN IF IT IS AGAINST YOUR ETHICS. YOU FIND YOURSELF FORGIVING THE PERSON FOR OFFENSE YOU WILL HARDLY LET GO IF IT WERE DONE BY OTHERS

Dear reader, Miles is a young banker with a new generation bank in Lagos. Miles met Kiki at a shopping mall and for him, it was love at first sight. Miles knew from the first time he saw Kiki that she was the one for him. Kiki is tall, beautiful, and kind. she is that type of girl anyone will look at over and over again.

It’s been six months now that Miles and Kiki have exchanged contacts. Miles spends heavily on Kiki and when he is free, he is always taking her out. Now the problem is Kiki has someone she loves dearly and it is not Miles. Kiki is in a relationship with Ikenna who is based in Malaysia but who comes home during the festive season to see her.
Miles is disturbed that six months into the relationship, Kiki is yet to accept his offer even with the numerous things he has bought for her. Now Dear Readers, please advise Miles on what to do

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About the author

Chioma Kalu

My name is Olugu Chioma Kalu. I was born in Aba, Abia State Nigeria. I am currently a student of Abia State University Uturu (ABSU) studying English Language and literature. I am an effective communicator and a good writer. I assure you that I understand you and will be able to connect with you.

12 Comments

  • Some ladies are just mad. Why will you venture into a relationship that is leading you nowhere? If you know you are not interested. Forget the gifts and everything. Aunty stay on your own. Nonsense! 😴

  • Dont you ever be a source of someone’s pain. Well Miles if you love her and hopes that she will change keep waiting.

  • Why would you accept gifts and valuables from someone you don’t love or would want to end up with.
    You are stucked because of the gifts you receive and that is pity.why would you suffer someone’s life and stretch them with high hopes and mixed feelings when you could have told him the truth from the beginning…. which could have made that guy look for someone else or gift you as a friend with no feelings attached.gbe if this boy tie ur destiny now,rape you with 99 others or beat ur ancestors out of ur head now….you will say all men are the same because of ur longer throat abi?
    Please always tell them the truth when they start with the cutting of eye to avoid you and devil tempting each other

  • Love is not enough to be in a relationship…you need character, tolerance, endurance,kindness and many more!!
    You can love someone but you can’t tolerate some things from the person…do you have to leave.Yes you can love without wanting to spend the rest of your life with the person .

  • Yes it’s 100 percent possible to like or love someone but wouldn’t like to spend the rest of your life with them. Especially when you find out some characters you can’t handle or control in that person’s life

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