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IF YOUR PARTNER DOESN’T FIGHT TO HAVE YOU, DO THEY REALLY WANT YOU?

IF YOUR PARTNER DOESN’T FIGHT TO HAVE YOU, DO THEY REALLY WANT YOU?
Written by Chioma Kalu

It’s a norm among female folks to play too hard to get.Many believe that this approach will help sift out the bad ones from the good ones..
However,there is something called love at first sight..You see someone you love and they just sweep you off your feet and you find yourself begging in your heart for him to approach you and ask you out.You might even find yourself giving him green light..

Now dear readers, If your partner doesn’t fight to have you, do they really want you? Please kindly drop your feedback on this question, let’s find out together.

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Chioma Kalu

My name is Olugu Chioma Kalu. I was born in Aba, Abia State Nigeria. I am currently a student of Abia State University Uturu (ABSU) studying English Language and literature. I am an effective communicator and a good writer. I assure you that I understand you and will be able to connect with you.

15 Comments

  • No. Fighting for someone is not about the love we have for them, I think it’s about what we believe in and what our heart desires or feels that it’s right.

  • Sometimes fighting can be very useless well, it shaa depends on the story
    You can’t fight for a person who doesn’t care!

  • Sometimes fighting can be very useless well, it shaa depends on the story
    You can’t fight for a person who doesn’t care!

  • I’ll advise you to stand up for yourself If you can’t gain a victory over a disagreement Don’t start fighting Grow up

  • Fighting to get a guy is an act of premature, you might fight and end up realizing that the guy is not interested in you.

  • ‘Partner’ meaning you both are together already…. “fighting to have you”meaning not wanting to loose what you both have already. On the cause of this,if you are not willing to fight for it, clearly you don’t want it enough.everyone is busy but we make time for what’s important,not responding timely or at all is a sign of disinterest or red flag but on the note where you aren’t together and the opposite gender is wanting you close but your refusal is based on playing their hearts to keep chasing,just know that love is a bit easier when you don’t play games. else they will definitely loose interest on you.its normal to get attracted or love someone who doesn’t share same view with you but if they know what they want,they should share same connection at least.you wouldn’t be showing off affection(greenlight) on someone you don’t know or sees on a regular so if this emotional thing isn’t reciprocated,it isn’t love and shouldn’t be stretched.when you admire or love someone who doesn’t want you both to happen and they keep giving you hard time after weeks of hardwork,then you should stop beating a dead horse.

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